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Tuesday, November 21, 2017
By Valerie Visser, Potsdam NY Boudoir Photographer
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Have you ever had an experience that literally changed your life?

Now, I am not going to tell you that this happens with all of my clients, everyone is unique. We all know that every one of us have lived through many different life events that have changed and molded us into the people that we are now. Those events if negative take a tole on us, on how we see our selves and value ourselves. I hear many stories from my clients and ladies who haven't even scheduled a session yet. Sometimes these stories are seemingly simple things that are normal parts of life like having children, or loosing or gaining some weight. Other stories are more extreme events that affect us like physical and/or mental abuse, or it may be the experience of a break up of a long time relationship, or possibly we were bullied growing up . . . the list goes on. In any of these type of instances, we can forget who were are and what we are capable of.  

Sometimes we might not even realize it until something happens that reminds us of that strong, confident person we once were!

 

My client's boudoir session had strong impact on her life and how she realized she had been living! I will let you read it in her words:

 

 When I say my boudoir shoot with Valerie changed my life I mean it. Before my shoot I had forgotten my self-worth, beauty, and sex appeal. I was in the middle of unsuccessful fertility treatments and going through a very rough time in my life. I was complacent in my relationship and just coasting through life.

After my shoot and viewing my photos everything changed for me. I saw myself in a totally different light. I realized I was beautiful and sexy and confident. I found strength that I had forgotten existed.

 

I have changed a lot since my boudoir session. Things I never thought possible I am now reaching for and achieving and I truly believe it all started with me making the leap to book my shoot.

Thank you Valerie! The experience has changed me for the better!

I even hear from new clients long before their session date that they are already feeling a bit more confident and are starting their days now with a spring in their step just knowing that they took the huge step out of their comfort zone to get their own session scheduled! I do see some pretty extreme life changes in many of my clients after their session and always for the good!

 

What is your story? Are you in a rut? Complacent and settling for your current life situation, because where you are now feels safe and comfortable or are you taking charge and making changes and pushing yourself to do the things that are hard? Are you doing the real work?

A session can be life-changing but there are also other ways to take the leap into to changing your life! Live it and be the best you can be!! For yourself!! In doing this for yourself those you love and even friends and co-workers will benefit!! A stronger more confident you has a whole lot more to give! 

 

Whatever it is, choose to do it for you! You deserve it! You only get this one life!

Make it the best it can be by putting your whole heart into living it!!

 

Hugs,

Valerie

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4 Comments
Valerie Visser - Yes Deanna, I totally agree. We all need to take a step back and look at ourselves and what we really are worth and what we want out of our lives.
Deanna Lauzon - It's amazing what one little thing can do to change our lives. I'm glad she took this step and is now living a happier life where she knows her self-worth. We are worthy but tend to forget about ourselves with the chaos of life and the expections of women now days.
Valerie Visser - Yes Gabrielle, I am not even certain that was what she was planning when she first scheduled her session but she rediscovered herself for sure!
Gabrielle Banks - This is amazing, as women we tend to care for everyone else and worry about ourselves last. This beautiful woman found a way to take her life back, that's awesome!